Natalie’s room. Before and after

“It looks like she was robbed”

“Did a hurricane go through there?”

“She didn’t leave it like that did she?”

“Are you going to leave it like that until she comes back for Thanksgiving?”

No

No

Yes

No — I want my parents to be able to stay in there while they visit. AND there were flies so I didn’t want two months of fermentation to make it worse.

after many hours of cleaning….

 

my plan for Thanksgiving is to set an earlier deadline and let her know her December allowance is conditional upon leaving with a clean room!!

She also confessed (aka laughed) that her dorm room cannot believe how messy her room is and has even taken videos to show others because they wouldn’t otherwise believe it. I knew she was a top tier offender!!! Thanks goodness school enforces cleaning your room once a week otherwise she cannot see friends.

(If you talk to Natalie, please done mention this post or the content in it!!)

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Master builder

“Right now I’m. A master builder and when I grow up, I’ll be a Lego designer and a dad,” Conor, age 6 and 2/3

also this  is his pic day shirt and pic day smile. He likes the side look. Gel to come — I hope his dad helps him.

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Conor’s First Grade Field Trip

Conor went to a nature center for his first first grade field trip. Unfortunately, I was in MA so I didn’t even get to try to see if I could chaperone. Poor Conor — I haven’t chaperoned a single field trip or helped out at a single school party. Hopefully I can change that this year.

Can you spot him?

(Hint: The tallest kid in the baseball hat)

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Natalie at Williston for freshman year

Jordan and I moved Natalie in to boarding school on Tuesday. (Jordan’s parents were kind enough to stay back with the boys and the dog so we could focus on Natalie — the boys will visit her in October for family weekend.) We were also lucky to have a group of MA friends have a bit of a “welcome party” for her, so that she has more adults nearby that she can rely on too. Williston has a crazy amount of support too, so she is in great hands.
Move-in went very well–no tears or hesitation on either side. (Natalie did not like Jordan’s suggestions of how to organize her clothes/room, but he did much better with assembly-based projects. :)) She also has a friend from her Longmeadow soccer team who goes to the school, so that helped a lot. Natalie had her first day of classes yesterday. She is taking geometry, physics, spanish 2, freshman english, and religious studies (that last one is just for the first term and is required — def. not her choice). She said that she loves Williston and that the people are really nice. Her roommate is from China!

MA Send-off with Holyoke Public Schools Friends

Here are some group dorm pics.

Natalie’s Dormmates

1st day of school breakfast bunch

Right after dropping Natalie off, we had a ribbon cutting ceremony for a middle school in Holyoke–a project I’ve been working on since 2018. That helped focus my mind on something else! It was great to have Jordan there supporting and celebrating with us!

 

Here’s a video from the event: https://youtu.be/dGFR-FC-QbM.

 

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First day of school (Elliott and Conor)

Elliott’s first back-to-school picture with his own dog!

Happy first day of school to Elliott (grade 7) and Conor (grade 1)! (Natalie starts in two weeks.)

Conor was first to drop off his supplies yesterday and first in line today. His teacher came out and said: “I can tell you know how school works. Can you do me a favor and hold this sign for our class?” He was thrilled!

Conor “C-MAN” enjoyed back-to-school shopping with me at Target. He liked picking out all his supplies (and some extra snacks). He was especially pleased that we bought 50 rhino stickers that he used to decorate all his supplies — and that his journal at school is so much more unique than his peers (most of whose parents just bought the standard school supply box and had it delivered to school). His only request for back-to-school clothes was polos because he looks handsome in them. (I agree with that — now, I just need to figure out how to get the marker, grease, chocolate, etc. out of the shirts after a full day of wear.)

Elliott is so low-maintenance… I asked him a number of times what clothes he wanted for school. All he asked for was more socks and a “save the chubby unicorn” shirt in a larger size (he’s had two smaller sizes as this is a staple in his wardrobe). I had to ask him on Tuesday morning, if he would please pick out a back-t0-school outfit. Later, I asked him what it was — he showed me — and then I asked about shoes. He admitted that he would like some new shoes, so we headed to Dick’s at 7:30 p.m. the night before school started. He did buy some new clothes too. I think we both felt equally good after that — me, more relieved because it feels like a tradition. Picking out your fav first-day-of-school outfit.

Natalie, on the other hand, is preparing for boarding school and her list of what she needs for her room and for clothes is ever-growing. She’s been thinking about her back-to-school outfit for weeks. More to come when we drop her off in just under two weeks!

 

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Door County

We rented an Air BNB in Sister Bay. Kenzie and Cam were able to join us for a day at Peninsula State park and lots of outdoor games. The next day, we went to Washington Island which I have always wanted to go to. One of the only pebble beaches in the world. A cool old medieval Norwegian churches. And a beautiful lavender farm. We saw Becky (on her bday) and Trev for a short while too. Then G and G’s house which when we pulled up Elliott said “I love coming here. Thanks so much for taking us”.

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E & E Downtown Date

Elliott and I had a fabulous day date in downtown Chicago. He is so fun, kind, appreciative and interested. We had lunch at his fav restaurant Pizano’s, walked by the fountain and bean, played at Maggie Daley, went to the torture museum gift shop, went on a 90-min architecture boat tour, stopped in the architectural center gift shop, at Crumbl cookies, went back to the torture museum gift shop, and came back on the express train.

more days like this please.

xoxo

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8th Recognition

Congratulations to our little Nat bug for finishing middle school! She received recognition for Gold Achievement (high GPA) and national junior honors society. Credit to Aunt Jira for the beautiful bouquet! We’re excited for a fun summer — lots of time in WI and at Nana and Pops pool, taking a typing class, and ballet. Before she heads off to Williston in Easthampton MA for high school!!

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Avocado Toast

Conor made himself avocado toast for a snack,

from start to finish except for slicing the avocados and including salting it! He said he learned it from Sissa and it tastes great!

 

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Picture of Elliott by CMAN

Elliott is a monkey. He likes legos. He built a lego museum. He is CMAN’s big brother. Elliott is nice. He passed Elden Ring. He is in 6th grade. He is 12 years old. He also likes his lego people. (I’m not sure what’s at the end of this.)

Note: The monkey comment is not an insult. Elliott told him that monkeys are human’s ancestors.

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